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RISE ABOVE the story

Because your
doesn't define you—

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No matter where you came from, what you went through, or what you’re going through now:

You can release yourself from the old stories you’re telling yourself and finally find true emotional freedom.

Freedom from the 3 a.m. anxiety, panic, and old emotional trauma playing on repeat in your mind.

Freedom from the weight that keeps you from breathing in love and exhaling the past.

Freedom from everyone else’s narratives that you’ve claimed as your own, so you have the space to be who you are, define what you want, and get what you need to start healing your emotional trauma.

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I’m Karena, and I’m proof that the pain of the past doesn’t have to define us.

I’ve had my unfair share of heartache and loss—and you probably have, too. Unfortunately, emotional trauma is a part of life for all of us and manifests in each of us differently.

But I know that what happens in the past can lift us up in love, if we so choose.

I know that while shame can shape us

Reclaim who we are

Reframe how we see the world

Release the weight of old stories

Regain our emotional freedom

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hi!

I’m Karena, and I’m proof that the pain of the past doesn’t have to define us.

I’ve had my unfair share of heartache and loss—and you probably have, too. Unfortunately, emotional trauma is a part of life for all of us and manifests in each of us differently.

But I know that what happens in the past can lift us up in love, if we so choose.

I know that while shame can shape us

Reclaim who we are

Reframe how we see the world

Release the weight of old stories

Regain our emotional freedom

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From Surviving to Thriving: How You Can Shift Out of Fight or Flight

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The Importance of Being Lovable

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How to Set Healthy Boundaries in Relationships

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The Power of Positive Affirmations

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Rewriting Your Sex Story

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How to Go From Day-Job to Dream-Job

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The Body Image Checkup: How to Love Yourself More

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And We’ll Have Fun, Fun, Fun ‘Til…

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The Breathwork Exercise That Changed My Life

“What are you looking to release?” the spiritual guide asked. “I’ve had an overwhelming fear of abandonment for as long as I can remember.” She scribbled on her notepaper. “And?” I wanted to say: And, my dog’s dying, and it’s almost the twentieth anniversary of my mom dying, who by the way, I never grieved…

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The Great Untangling: The Next Step in Freeing Yourself From Old, Limiting Stories

After months of surveilling our house, the F.B.I. got a warrant for Dad’s arrest. Perhaps Dad knew, which is why he left town a day before they showed up looking for him. When the feds realized Dad had skipped town, they splashed his photo across the local news, along with heavy words like “wanted” and…

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You Don’t Need a New You—You Just Need You

It’s that time of the year again when we’re force fed the idea that we need to be better. Different. Thinner. Stronger. Smarter. We need to work harder. Sleep better. Drink Less. Drink more. Give up bread. Have more sex. Do more yoga. Quit snoring. Turn our phones off. Read more. Do less. Do more….

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What’s Your Christmas Story? 5 Ways to Feel Merry and Bright

Oh, the holidays. There’s so much hoopla about good tidings and cheer. We rush around buying gifts––even for people we don’t like because it’s the “right thing to do.” Then there’s all the mushy Hallmark movies and Christmas cards plastered with smiling faces recounting a year’s worth of “look what I did.” For a lot…

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Finding Your Inner Warrior

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Letting Go of Shame

Were you raised in a “shame on you” household? I sure was. Maybe it was the era. Maybe it was my parents pushing me to be more. Or maybe it’s how they were raised. But I’ll tell you what—“shame on you” was a punishment that often hurt more than a bare butt spanking.  But let’s…

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Don’t Desperately Seek Anything

What do you want more than anything right now? Go ahead. Name it, I’ll wait.  Great. Now when you identify this thing or situation you want, is the energy surrounding it dripping with desperation? Does it feel anxious and clingy? Are you white-knuckling your dream? If so, let’s back up.  There’s a magic to manifesting…

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Develop Your Self-Esteem Not Your Confidence

I hate skiing! I tried it years ago and I fell––a lot. I mean a lot. Heck, I even fell off the chairlift. And that wasn’t the really humiliating part, the real embarrassment occurred when a six-year-old gracefully glided off the lift four chairs later while I was still in a duck and cover position…

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The Power and Beauty of Grief

When’s the last time you grieved? If it’s been a while, you’re probably overdue. Grief is an essential emotion for long-term happiness. During a time of loss, it offers us the shelter to stay put and the freedom to move on. But it doesn’t always feel that way, does it? I know from experience that…

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How to Stay Healthy During the Holidays

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Keeping Your Spirits Bright This Holiday Season

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How to Supercharge Your Immune System

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Why We Should Forgive

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Love and How to Choose Differently—For Real This Time

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